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These Tangos, Valses, and Milongas were recorded around the same time. Take a look to discover what else this orchestra—or others—may have recorded during the same week or even on the exact same day.
Tomo y obligo is a Tango written by Manuel Romero and composed by Carlos Gardel.
The song “Tomo y obligo” tells a story of a man grappling with heartbreak and betrayal. As he drinks, he seeks to unburden his grief on a friend, reflecting on his profound emotional pain caused by a love that was not reciprocated. His recounting transitions from nostalgic memories of passionate love to the bitterness of seeing his beloved with someone else, which evoked feelings so intense that it led him to thoughts of violence—a reflection of both his despair and the cultural expressions of masculinity of his time.
The title “Tomo y obligo,” translating to “I take and I force” or “I drink and compel,” symbolizes the protagonist’s attempt to cope with his pain through alcohol, compelling himself to face his anguish. Phrases like “quiero en su pecho mi pena volcar” (I want to pour my sorrow into his chest) and “todas, amigo, dan muy mal pago” (all, friend, pay very poorly) symbolize the sharing of grief and the disillusionment with unfaithful love. The repeated declaration that “a man must not cry” underscores a societal expectation of stoic masculinity, highlighting a culturally ingrained aversion to male vulnerability.
Recorded in 1951, “Tomo y obligo” is embedded in post-World War II Argentina, a period marked by political and economic changes and a rich cultural expression through tango. The persona in the tango embodies the archetypal stoic male of the era, reflecting the machismo that was prevalent in Latin American cultures. This societal backdrop adds layers to the protagonist’s struggle with his emotions and the extreme act of contemplating violence as a response to betrayal, portraying a conflict between personal feelings and societal norms.
Manuel Romero was a prolific Argentine author and lyricist known for his deep involvement in the national cinema and music scenes, contributing significantly to the popular culture of his time.